Is this routine of Indians, all these systems gives us happy? No. Are we allowed to make decisions on our own, can we choose what we love, what makes us happy? No never we are not allowed to do what we love or what makes us happy. We are allowed only to do what is said by elders we have to follow them whether it is gives us happy or not we have to follow this our routine have no rights to go out of this routine untill our half of our life gets over. This is the life for most of the youngsters in India including me I'm in the routine too. If we say what we like or we don't like what we said to do, then we will become a bad son or daughter, we get abandoned, we get punishments and we get bad image in our family. This is the routine which is followed for years.

I know a friend who had bad life because of their parents and what is the sad thing is they are happy that they did good to him made him a happy life. Yeah they did what is good to him I won't say that's bad but what matter is did he liked what they did to him? No not at all. He was not allowed to say is views, What he love or what he wants. He was in this routine he had too intense he would cry to me all day saying why they are like that? why can't I make my own decisions? Am I not mature enough or did I don't have age to make decisions? No I'm 22 I'm working still now I can't make my own decisions or I can't do what like or love. These are the words he constantly repeating for days. I can only be a friend who gives hope, that's all I can do about him. When i do something more to change that made me a bad arrogant boy, a bad friend this is what image I got from their parents. And then I got avoided by them.

This as to change, this routine had to break what is good can be done but it should be loved by the person we are not a servant to the parents we have feelings too please respect our feelings give us what we like not good.

There should be change atleast in our next generation we have to make changes. I make a promise that I keep my childrens by giving them what they love not what is good. I will respect their feelings give them choice to decided. Don't make a miserable life to your child. Please everyone should make this promise and follow. 

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