Many a times in our life we find ourselves in situations which we never wanted to be in. But somehow we get into it & later on regret about it. We always wish for something good, something positive to happen but ends up on the wrong side.
Hey Candlemonk family, I am Vibhu and in today's post I am going to share some of my personal things like some of my Regrets & some Wishes that I wanted to be true soon & I know these things are worth. Why am I discussing these with you? Because whether your life or living standards are different from me but somewhere sometimes you also must have gone through this or may be going through. So my experiences may comfort you a little or you can learn from these and feel Motivated to leave some bad & adopt some good for yourselves. So let's get started.
First of all it is being said that being emotional is right for humans as we are the results of emotions. But sometimes these emotions makes you feel regret about something. And that's true also in my case. Here I am sharing three of my regrets that I wanted to change (and working on them) & three associated wishes that I want to be true soon.
Regret No. 1 : Emotional Inclination : Well emotions are the intricate part of our lives but sometimes when I think about it I find that most of the times when we go on taking any important decision for life, we have to be more logical than emotional. Like buying any asset, investment, property & even in relationship we need some extent of logic as we have to be in it for lifetime. Only going by emotions like beauty, colour, complexion etc in relationship may give you regrets later.
Wish No. 1 : Wish to be more logical : Yes that's true, we humans are given the best functional system that is brain. Even brain does all the emotional as well as logical functioning. I wish I could improve my self more on logical side than emotional one. I know some of you may disagree with it. But its my opinion only.
Regret No. 2 : Anger Management : So, I wanted to put this on top but then I realised that this may give a negative impression of myself at first glance so I decided to put it here. Yes, this part is the biggest regret for me now a days. Usually I am silent, normal but some of the things which I find uncomfortable really makes me go angry. Well, this doesn't happen always but still I don't want to waste even a minute on that.
Wish No. 2 : Being Happy Go Lucky : I know that life is not always biased or unidirectional. If today is happiness then sorrow will follow and vice versa but if you think about your duration of life and the time that you wasted unnecessarily on anger, sadness and negativity like things you would be amazed & definitely wish to convert most of those to good and cheerful moments. Atleast one can try to be so.
Regret No. 3 : Procrastination : I mean this is not a new thing at all, we all do procrastinate somewhere about some things. But for me it is the worst thing because in procrastination you don't learn anything, you just keep on building up imaginations and kind of ‘fake' or the ‘unreal’ expectations. Students often do procrastinate about many things alot including studies, future & love life. But it is common in adults also. I don't do this often but yes sometimes I do which I want to change.
Wish No. 3 : Being in Reality : See expecting to do something that you know you ‘can’ is good & trying to do something which seems ‘difficult’ is even great. But attempting on something which doesn't even suits you or you know that taking too stretched out for you, is worst. And this is the result of procrastination. So being in reality is most important so that you can work more efficiently. Mostly I do live in reality but sometimes I do attempt out of reach things which I wish to change.
That's it for today guys. I hope this post may have made you connected to me somewhere. It wasn't to disrespect any of your emotions but to make you deal with them accordingly.
Share any of your such regrets or your wish that you have. Now I will see you in the next one.
Thank You.
