Published Jun 30, 2021
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How To Shut Down Sexist Comments!!

Published Jun 30, 2021
2 mins read
470 words

Let's take a no against those opinions and give ourselves a piece of mind. 

  1. Someone : 'Don't cut you Hair short you will look like a boy'. Like really!! Now length of my hair will decide my gender. People making such remarks are not worth your time.
  2. Someone :'Wear your dupatta, your cleavage is visible'. People who make these kinds of statements, their brain needs more knowledge than a cleavage needing dupatta.
  3. Someone :'You will look more attractive if you lose some weight'. This is the most common statement we have all heard by friends, family and even by our closest persons and they think it's a compliment. Well no it's not. People making such remarks should stay quiet more often that will look more attractive on them.
  4. Someone:'Oh! Don't tell me you are one of those feminist types'. “Feminist” most hated word by men and even some women because people take it synonymously with ‘man-hating'. And then their is some fake feminism too that makes it worth their hate. But “feminism” only means “equal rights for women” and if you are one of those people who believes in it, then congratulations!!  You are a Feminist .
  5. Someone :'What are you even wearing?  It's such a small and revealing skirt'. Well the skirt is not small, it's the thinking which is small and is now revealed. Why do people even make remarks on clothes? It's because they judge the length of character by length of the dress. And we all know it's not the dress that is the problem and it's their way of thinking and they hide it by victim blaming. You dress in your best outfit sometimes why?  because it gives you confidence. Right ! So let someone else do the same. Don't judge. For God's sake. Please !!
  6. Someone :'Men like smooth skin on women. You must wax often'. Do women owe men attraction?  I mean if a man likes a woman for the amount of hair on her body then she may think she's better off alone.
  7. Someone : Sports is not for women it's too masculine,  it requires physical strength, women are too delicate to handle such activities. Like really 😂 no wonder people having these thoughts are playing all their life solo with misogyny.

Anyone who's reading this I just want to request to be careful with your choice of words. You really don't know what your one statement can do to someone's confidence. And to the people who come across such comments make them realise what they said. Shut them right there. 

If you can't be constructive towards someone don't be destructive. Just stay quiet!! 

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