Hello guys welcome to my new blog. My topic is going to be about dullness in us and friendship scarcity(no friends).
It's common to not make friends when it's your first time in a place( new place). When you enter a new school, college or university. A most found problem is many people are found lonely and it happens every where. Talking about ourselves, we feel shy, anxiety to talk to new people. It's all about communication and how open minded you are. As it's your first day at a new place, you are new to all the people which brings attraction in atmosphere, and it will be easy to make friends faster from the first day onwards. And it will all happens only when we speak to them nicely.
After somedays you become friends or not based on your behaviour. Some surely thing we need no friends, it's not a problem. But it will be utmost necessary to make many helpful connections, surely it becomes more helpful than no friends. Many people or students consider themselves as INTROVERTS and EXTROVERTS, but don't make it your style. Introverts are considered to talk very less or don't talk to anyone. Extroverts are considered to be the best social beings in our society now. Being reserved is a must thing to have, but when it's your turn you have to talk as well.
Don't categorize yourself, because all humans are social beings and we need to be one. Because of that it not only gets you friends but helps you understand and get along or play along with society.
Being dull is a illusion we put on ourself, cutting that out you are free from many chains. Your mind feels at ease and make you move. To get the DULLNESS out of you, you must love yourself first. It brings care in you and make you motivate and brightens the mind. And talk to others , help others . Helping others is another way to build friendship bond.
SO what i say is that making friends is easy and being DULL is common just snap out of it and care for yourself and family and it sure makes you a better person than a DULL PERSON.
Many suffice the above problem, mentioned in the TITLE. So my DAD told me , “ Be with ALL, but also Be the ONE”.
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