Hello readers,

            Well, this blog is all about should a child from his growing period be made self-independent or not?

In my opinion, parents should prepare their kids for all sorts of situations because who knows in future what kind of circumstances would appear and what if at that moment there is nobody to help you to get out of that situation?! therefore rather than begin dependent on someone be self-independent, I have heard stories from my grandma about their struggle days like at that time parents were used to be very strict, all their work was supposed to be done by themselves, even in school teachers used to punish them but now kids are so delicate that this kind of strictness they can't handle and because of which they take big steps like suicide, running away from home, stealing things etc…, so who is to be blamed for all this? how can a small child take this kind of risky and life-threatening steps?

So answer to this is nothing but parents and judging society is to be blamed nowadays people are so busy in competition with each other for fame, wealth including everyone wants to be first in the race but what kind of race we all in?one must live thier life to fullest not by fighting with each other and that's what TODAY'S generation is being taught because of which kids are forcefully forced to study and only study, hence their minds blocked in such a way that they don't have their interests left, they know only one thing and that is I have to study so that they can be first in the race but only by studying you cannot win the race for that you have to be yourself, I know studying is important but in addition to that there are more things too one should be an extrovert which helps one to develop a good personality, but I have seen people of my age or less who though are extrovert or try to show are not self-independent, going for clubbing, spending money on parties and showing that you are an extrovert doesn't make sense, one should know their responsibilty towards their family,career goals and society.

In this recent years, the attitude of kids has changed so much that they have forgotten their limits as a child or a teenager, the tone they use, rude behaviour towards elders or teachers, not respecting them, thinking that their parents are their enemy which is not at all true… losing grip over basic concepts, lack of concentration, being sluggish and the root cause of all this is excessive use of mobile phones, tabs, laptops and what not… huh! EACH AND EVERYONE HAS A GOD GIFTED TALENT IN THEM WHICH IS HIDDEN AND ONE CAN FIGURE THIS OUT ONLY WHEN YOU HAVE CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF, so why are you wasting your time, energy on all these electronic gadgets! COME UP.

WELL, my main motive is to encourage kids to more active plus responsible, so how can this be done, here are few tips:-

• Depending on what age the child is and how dependable and focused she/he can be, she/he should be able to handle any number of age-appropriate household chores, from sweeping floors to washing dishes. Even young children can help set the table and straighten up their rooms. Chores can not only give kids a sense of responsibility but can help boost their self-confidence as they see that their work makes a valuable contribution to their family.
• One of the best things you can do is to teach yourself how to be comfortable in the kitchen and eventually, prepare simple meals. Not only are shopping and cooking together great ways to teach kids healthy eating habits, but they are also wonderful opportunities for families to spend time together.
• Making your schedule makes one disciplined and punctual, this too helps to be independent, an independent child will rely on himself, not on his parents, to know what he needs to do and where he needs to be.
• Be an independent thinker do not rely on others thought, what you want or want to be should be your own decision not of others.. this makes one bold and confident..
• It's important for kids to know that not every single moment of their lives has to be filled with scheduled activities. Kids need to learn to find things that interest them and to have the opportunity to spend time on the things they like.
• Go to shops alone buy things this tells kids how manage the expenses and builds leadership quality..

I have been helping my parents from 3rd std moreover I have never misuse the freedom I got from them which actually helped me see the world from a different angle,hope so I can except this from other too.. Also be frank with your parents, be their friends coz books and family are the only real friends you will have till the end❤❤…

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