Hi friends, thanks for the support from the previous week, I am back with the new content for the beginning of the new week. Hope, you will feel it interesting. This post is from my life story but you might also have some content. In childhood, we are being taught a lot of good values, but sometimes, it really hurts us badly, when we are not able to follow those. The first and foremost thing is about the charity that we provide to poor and needy. When I was a child, I always liked to donate money to these people and I used to scold my parents for giving me less money for that donation.

But, now when I started to earn, I feel that it is very much hard to donate people, yes, I feel that amount that I earn is not enough for myself, as the prices of everything is raising exponentially, where will I go for money to donate to poor people, now I feel very bad that, unnecessarily I thought bad about my parents for giving less money for donation, now I am not even able to donate the least of the least. There is one more reason, I am  a parent and I have my wife and son totally dependent on me.

The next thing that I mainly wanted to tell is about the dowry. In childhood, I thought that I will do a love marriage and will not accept any dowry from the girl whom I am going to marry. But, that did not happen too, I did not have a love marriage, so I had to choose the arranged marriage, because if we get older, then the probability of getting married will reduce. If you are wealthy, then you can get married at even 40, but middle class guy like me needs to get married before 30, otherwise the probability keeps on reducing exponentially.

So, when I come into my marriage episode, I was forced to take dowry since it was arranged marriage, my parents did not demand anything as a dowry, they were happy with whatever my wife's parents could afford and they told me not to sell or keep mortgage any of her jewels, even if I face crisis of situation, I have agreed to it. I promised my wife that I will not ask a single piece of jewel, that I have received as dowry, will continue to do the same.

Thanks for reading, will think if I can recollect some more things relating to this topic, if yes I will post in the next part.