Published Mar 4, 2022
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Loneliness - Definitely A Good Healer

Published Mar 4, 2022
2 mins read
403 words

Hi Friends, thanks for all the support these many days, felt like 2022 has just started, but we have already crossed 2 months and one week in third month is about to get over. Things are getting returned normally, hopefully we wont be attacked by any other virus in the near future.

I am person who liked to live alone. Although was born in a neutral family. I never got a chance to stay alone. But, it was during my first job, I got a chance to live alone. I can be myself, there is no need to act for anyone else. I can do whatever I want and noone is going to comment on my actions. I will have my own space. I was earning and I can spend on the things I missed.

There was always been a lot of things, I was longing to buy since my childhood, but my parents usually used to avoid them, as it might be harmful to me. But, even after knowing certain eatables are harmful, we will definitely like to eat them atleast once in our life time. Those kind of desires of mine have been fulfilled. I can watch the videos that I liked to. I can listen to music and dance as I am not afraid or worried, what others would think about me.

There are a lot of restrictions in most of the Indian families, saying tradition and culture, all the restrictions will become as small molecules when we are alone. The whole new time for yourself. we can revamp ourselves. If we are in anger or any other bad emotion, being alone will give us time to think and get back to normal. 

It will make us to take a lot of decisions. Even though we might need to discuss with someone on big decisions, being lonely will give us the calmness to think about the decision. We wont be influenced by decision of others, it will be our own decision, even if we are wrong. We can't be winning everyday, there are sometimes, we might need to have failure as well. That failure will give us a lot of lessons.

We will get a satisfaction of even losing, if the decision is taken by us rather than winning by getting suggestion of someone. These are purely my own thoughts. Thanks for reading. Keep supporting for my future contentsโ€ฆ

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mreeduban.goswami 3/4/22, 3:03 PM
Nice plz do read my blogs ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘
sheetal.thakur 3/4/22, 3:54 PM
Nice
newly_risen_sun 3/5/22, 2:53 AM
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Well said ๐Ÿ™Œ Akele rehne ka apna alag hi maza hai๐Ÿ˜‚โœŒ๏ธ
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mswords 3/7/22, 8:19 AM
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In indian family we can't get little privacy, that's why living alone is great satisfaction๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
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sumitsing 3/10/22, 4:53 AM
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i too love privacy
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ganga_ambily_gopi 3/18/22, 1:55 PM
Keep writing!
lokeshbhandari821 3/29/22, 8:28 AM
Nice Blog Pls read mine too
riyality 4/4/22, 7:26 PM
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waiting for more such blogs.
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subir_cdlmnkblog 4/6/22, 3:25 PM
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We heal up when we are slow, do you say we are slow when lonely? Some clarity missing.
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rangaraj.pandey 4/20/22, 3:51 AM
Nice
ayushi.prajapati 4/21/22, 5:11 AM
Amazing blog.. keep writing.. and do read mine as well let's grow together ๐Ÿค—

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