Hi Friends, Thanks for the support provided in the last week. You guys keep me motivated always. so, let us get into the topic. This is not generalizing anyone. This is purely based on my experience. According to my experience, I have seen a lot of women gossiping about others. That is not meant men are not gossiping, men are also, but not to that level of women. So, I don't know the reason, I have seen a lot of women who are gossiping.

In a survey that was conducted on number of words that women speak to that of the number of words does a men speak. The survey states that number of words a women speak is around 20000 and the number of words a men speak on an average is 7000. Out of 20000 words, there will be definitely around 10000 words that are spoken are related to gossips. I have not realized about this for these many days. But, currently after the work from home has started, I realized about this. 

working women atleast have gossip less, the women who are in home, always gossip a lot. Gossiping is not problem, but it keeps on getting diverted when it is being told to other person. For example, if a guy says a word to another person, “ He wants a jar full of water”, it moves on to other person as “ This guy wants a Jar”, “ It is being conveyed to other person as ” he needs big jar". and finally it is being conveyed as" He needs a Jar of Gold". This will happen because of gossiping.

If some person gossips about a celebrity or sports person or politician that should also be fine, but gossiping about a person who is our neighbor or relative or close circle, there comes the unnecessary trouble and fight. This is the reason our area is being divided, which moves on to street, then city, then state, country and finally world. This is how small troubles get converted into big issues and result in wars.

We have to think and speak each and every word, as there are a lot of meanings and the way it is being conveyed to others is even more dangerous. Gosipping can be done as a time pass, but we should ensure that it is not hurting the feelings of others and troubling others.

Thank you for reading.