In the previous article we have discussed about introverts.
Let’s discuss myths associated with extroverts today:
Myth: Extroverts are talkative / Attention seeking
Fact: Despite the fact that extraverts are good at conversation, that definitely does not signify they can go on with that chat if the vibes do not match. They are noticed by people due to their expressive behavior, which could be unintentional.
Myth: Extroverts have better set of connections
Fact: Extroverts may be acquainted with a lot of people, but that doesn’t mean good associations. An introvert could have better network if the quality and not the number matters. So any individual could be resourceful.
Myth: Extroverts can’t keep their life secretive
Fact: Extroverts are not an open book to all. They talk about a range of topics and not their personal life with everyone. Delicate issues are shared only with group of friends they have confidence on.
Myth: Extroverts are jobless (as they are always available)
Fact: Extraverts want to be around people and they wish to be available to everyone who needs them. They are excellent at time management and are familiar with their priorities. They may be in the middle of an important task but will never let you think they are busy if you need them.
Myth: Extroverts are better leaders/ speakers
Fact: Though extraverts have no problem in sharing their opinion in front of many people, some extroverts may be shy or have stage fear. Shyness is a psychological condition which may be present in any person.
Myth: Extroverts are happy go lucky people
Fact: Since extroverts have a bigger circle and get energized in the company of people around them, it may well be possible that they also have some deep feelings which cannot be shared.
How to care for an extravert:
· Admire their freedom
· Acknowledge their enthusiasm
· Don’t keep them waiting
· Don’t get the wrong impression about their actions and words.
· Chat about different topics with them.
· Be frank about your opinions concerning them.
Some famous extraverts: Bill Clinton, Margaret Thatcher, Muhammad Ali, Steve jobs, George W Bush.
By now, we must have understood that everyone is different from each other for various reasons. Besides being introvert, extravert, ambivert, introverted- extrovert or extroverted- introverted, there are certain other specific characteristics of human beings.
The only important condition is to be kind, empathetic and loving to fellow humans.