There is a very old practice in this ' Great Indian Society ' which still followed by the so called great educated people. The practice of deciding the women’s freedom. According to these so called educated people Women should ask permission for the freedom which was already guaranteed by the honorable Constitution of the country under the Article 14 , 19 and 21. Then Who are those to grant permission. Women should always be independent not dependent. Most of the Women sacrifices their freedom to those whom they love but according to me it should not be done, Women should never compromise her freedom to anyone.
Women who get married either arranged or love if their marriage gets worsen and if they try to get out of such toxic relation instead of standing by her side this ' Great Indian Society ' of so called educated people will torture her for her decision and will see her as a women with no dignity. According to them ' women if married and that marriage is toxic she have only two options infront of her; one is either to suicide and second is to leave her self respect and be in that relationship for the sake of her family .
This approach or mentality should change, If you’re in such a relationship then don’t hesitate of other’s or what they think it should not be a matter to you, you should move out.
Women are considered as slaves of men for their uses. They have been exploited by those whom she believes to protect her. Exploitation of women has become a normal thing now which shouldn’t be.
The Women Empowerment Organization are not taking any initiative for the development of women, there perspective is too narrow, which shouldn't be.
If a Man get divorced then, their family doesn't matter …they won't become a headache or not a matter for the society. When will this change? Do they need to seek permission for each and every thing?.
The change is required in the mind of the people, the way they consider the various gender is very different , when they try to see them through the same eye the things will change.
There is a movie in Malayalam named ‘ How Old Are You’. In that movie a question is asked Who decides an expiry date for a woman's dream?. The answer is simple we the women, we sacrifices everything our job career passion for the sake of other's that is the biggest mistake we have been committing and still is going on. Do men sacrifice the same do they ever compromise these things. If we take a survey it will only show 10% of the total men will say they compromise their career but the highest percentage still feels that it's the duty of the women to continue the ‘ Happily Ever After’.
Women Should learn to fight back towards those exploitations and anarchy. “ Don’t wait for others to get into your life be the boss of your life".
