Unseen tears break a person from inside. Whose tears are seen, we may consider him weak from outside, but there is no burden on the soul of the person who does so.
The person who does not express his sorrow, whose tears neither flow nor are seen with open eyes, with every pain, the burden on his soul increases and whatever he may look from outside, he becomes weak and hollow from inside.
Such people simply do not express their grief in front of anyone, because they don't want to appear weak in front of anyone or they don't trust anyone, or else they think the world won't understand their grief and make fun of them behind their backs.
And this is because nowadays the people of the world have become like this, only a few people are left to listen and understand someone's pain.
I just want to tell you guys that if someone is telling you his sorrow then it means he trusts you. Considers you as your own.
Try to listen to such people as much as you can, if you cannot hug them, then you can only hold hands and say that you are with them.
βLike for some 1 lakh is too small and for some 10 thousand is also a very big amount.β
Similarly, if someone's sorrow is small for you, then it does not mean that that sorrow is small for him too.
That is why, if someone is very upset over a small matter, then try to understand him, do not say that he is showing off about such a thing.
Always remember that 5 minutes of positive talk with someone of yours can save someone's life.
Let me tell you all about an incident. Once I was very sad because of an incident in college.
I used to be very upset, used to cry all night. I couldn't even tell anyone about it, because what happened was my fault somewhere or the other.
It will be around 6 o'clock in the evening, I was very sad, I had to talk to someone but I do not understand whom to call. Then I got a call from a girl she said that she is speaking Aarti, she met me in yesterday's seminar, she has called for the review of her product. I started crying instead of saying anything, she got scared, she felt that she had said something wrong and she apologized and she hang up.
I called her again and said straight away, are you free? Can you talk to me for a while? She hesitated a bit and said''' yes! you can
what happened?
I started crying again and started talking to her without taking a breath when there was no sound from there for a long time, then I thought she disconnected the phone. But no, she was on the call and she was listening to me.
After talking for about 40 minutes, I became silent, my crying had also stopped and my mind was also feeling very light.
She did not find out my mistake, listened to all my words and said that I can call her again.
On the third day my phone was stolen, I lost her number, I couldn't talk to her again but can't forget her.
Your support can save someone from being hollow, someone dying from inside.
Those whose tears are not visible from their eyes, need us the most.
Tears of closed eyes and silent screams slowly eats the person from inside