Hello wonderful people! After a great response on the first part of this series here I am with it’s second part. These ,are just my opinions which helped me in past and is helping me till today to have a strong relationship. You may disagree with me or you may have a better suggestion so do let me know in the comment section. So without further wasting any time let’s hop into it
Basically giving space is a both psychological term and a physical term when it comes to a relationship. I personally feel when the couple understands the concept of giving each other space then this really helps to maintain their bond and even make that bond stronger and mainly increases the interval between two fights without increasing the level of the fight. Other thing that I have noticed is how social media accounts are used as a tool to increase the problem of not giving space. Let’s take a simple example imagine your partner has put another person’s picture on his/her story, snap, post, etc and because you do not like that person due to certain reasons you tell your partner to remove that. This is where the concept of space comes we need to understand the difference between your partner and a prisoner. Relationship has two wheels or mind which has different thoughts and different feelings while being a prisoner is merely following orders. yes you can always suggest the person against some person with goo reason but being in a relationship means to understand each other’s happiness and not work for only your happiness or satisfaction
In psychological term giving space means letting the person have his own time to deal with either the stressor in the relationship or stressor due to any social event or any event like that or just wanting to have a little break from the social environment of being in a relationship. this applies to everyone as there is ,as I feel always sub consciously a pressure of letting others know that you are in a relationship. Notice this with your friend group after being in a relation whenever you are with your friends’ notice that at some point even for a second there is either a mention of your partner or partner of someone from your friend group or even talking about relations. This is rather a subjective topic which is different for everyone and the level and amount and even the concept of space is different for everyone.
In physical terms it is rather simpler. Just imagine you and your partner being in someone’s birthday or wedding or any other social event. if you are continuously with your partner holding hands, telling each other to make certain changes to your dress and always sitting too close might be a sign of letting your partner, in simple and kind of rough words ,go out and talk with other and rather feel the life outside being in a relationship like any other.
Due to not giving space a concept of your partner feeling like “being captured in jail” or in a more logical way ,a feeling of suffocation starts in a relationship .this suffocation may lead to forming fractures in bonds and sometimes if not fixed leading to break up. This thing of suffocation is very common in young teenagers between the age of 14-20 as they are still immature and these hormones are still working their way up causing a great obstacle in their relationships.
HERE are some of my tips to avoid this
So I hope you liked this blog. Drop a like and a comment and do tell me if you want me to write on certain topics or even you have some suggestions, thank you
