Hey To everyone. I want to share a thought about the relationship between the Heart and the Mind. I think most of the people are experiencing this and i hope you can relate this to your life also.
Basically the mind is a clever one and actually a standard one, because it always think of something that's good for you and your life. Infact it is strict that it won't give space for your emotions and feelings. Because emotions and feelings are handled by some other department called the heart. As it is responsible for most of the decisions based on your emotions like love and doing the things that you like. But those things doesn't always ends up good. As you know when the minds wants something it will think of the benefits and consequences .But the heart in the other hand don't even think of any consequences because it is busy in falling in love with what you like. That is the main reason for most of the bad things happen in our life. Such as a toxic relationship and emotionally taken bad decisions. People say follow your heart and do what your heart says…But it not entirely healthy. If you want to do something by heart you have to consult with your mind. Because that is also an important part of you. Mind and heart are like tenants living in your apartment. Whatever the decision you take, you have go through both of them . Because if it fails, it is gonna affect both of them. You don't want to live with a broken heart and a healthy mind or vice-versa. Follow the heart and consult the mind also. As the heart think Do you love it.? As the mind think Do you need it? . It will only be a good decision when you get a Yes for both the questions.
When you are getting into a relationship ask your heart ‘Do you really love the person?’ Also ask your mind ‘Is this the right person?’ Because you don't want to live with a wrong person or unsuitable person that your heart finds attractive…
Don't commit a relationship with a person just because your heart likes him/her. If you are willing to commit a relationship that means you are ready to live and share your life with that person for the rest of your life . So you have to ve ready for that.
How to find that him/her will be the right person? Well Don't worry I got you covered.. If you really like that person, ask your heart do you want to share the rest of your life with him/her. Discuss about how do you want the relationship to be. How do you want to start and run the family? Discuss How do you want to settle in? Discuss about having kids.. Discuss about buying a house. Discuss about sharing the rent and paying the bills. This seems like a little bit much..But I'm sorry to say this ..it is the reality.. Everybody will face it..So its better to be ready.. someday there will be struggle in your life So choose a person whom you want to fight the life with. If you start a relationship just by the emotional connections..as soon as the reality hits your relationship…it will scatter your relationship into pieces. When that happens ,you can't even find those emotional connections. They will be vanished into thin air. So Always get the Heart and Mind in a balanced state. Just equally balanced. Not one side more or less.. Just keep it balanced…
Thank you
