As the title is showing you all about the subject of my blog,so lets come straight away to the point.Why Indian parents force their child to get married in a arrange way?Why they are not trusting love marriage? Even I have lots of questions about this.We Indians think that nothing lasts longer in our life,but how can we trust on the fact that arrange marriage is better then love?I mean its too better to live with the person whom you know from many years,its akward to spend life with the unknown person.I know after few years of arrange marriage everything will be as causual, but why to wait for even that few years? I strongly believe in love marriage,I'll share my views on it. Love marriage is all about understandings,love,knowing each other since a long time,but in arrange marriage we have to compromise things.And in most of the cases a girl has to compromise her everything not just her house,but also her dreams.Arrange marriage also has understanding but it is all with the girl and not with the boy side. Now-a-days I know everything is changed,but this change is just in the city. In the village side there are still this kind of cases where a girl has to leave her studies,dreams,hobbies everything just to make their parents happy. They cant even tell them that they want to study more, or looking forward for job opportunities.My blog will not reach to them for sure but I think this will be a bit helpful to those who read this.Everyone here is a straight forward no one thinks about this situation,I really feel so much bad for them who cant even say NO in front of their parents.Not just us but even parents need to know that this is not thier generation.I still know some families where they dont allow their daughter to hang out with her friends,even not in the day.I really dont know why these types of parents are strict with their child, If parents are very much free with their own child then there is very much less percent chances of child to do something wrong in his or her life.Look at my parents,they know each and every thing about me like I have bunked lectures during my college time, hangout with male friends not even in the day but also in the night, they know I drink,haves a boyfriend,they never say me No for ny of my trips. I'm really glad to hve such parents with me. Being a girl child I serioulsy dont have any kind of pressure such as study,forcing me to not going here-there.If you are stucking into the sames problems just do one thing,sit with your parents for 1-2 hrs,make them realise that you wont do any such things which would make them ashame and then see if they agree you will be the luckiest person for youself,make them understand that you are not going to take any wrong step.I hope this was a bit informative to all of you,Share your views too like what you all think arrange marriage is better or love?