As we know life is not  the same always its keep on moving in spite of  caring about people things or time , it shows many colours of it some time in  our favour or some time against us ,but the thing is our habit  and expectations will wont understand that  and there are those who always  hurt us most of the time because they would understand this colours of  life which  some time can hurt the most will result in anger depression etc  

This is about the life!

THE  THINGS  WHICH  WE  HAVE , WE  NEVER  APPRESSIATE   OR  NEVER VALUE  THEM AT THE  TIME WE  HAVE  THEM ,WE WILL UNDERSTAND THEIR  VALUE  ONLY WHEN IT WILL GONE .

The thing   which i have mention above,

I am sure every one of us  has experienced atleast once in their life.

It is applicable to any thing person, place ,things etc 

Here i am talking about life ,when we are in school we want childhood ,when we have college life we want our school life , school friends etc we miss them ,in making  over life's perfect according to our  needs thoughts and desire we forgot  to live life in a movement  that make us miss them most. 

Now coming to life before marriage and after marriage 

We love our parents yes ever one do that every one but just that some of us don't realise because they may be not allowed  to do thing by their own or reasons can vary or many other reasons we don't realise our freedom  to live freedom to speech and  freedom to spend or wast any thing 😅and freedom of understanging  right by others 

After marriage first thing that will change is understaning  people wont understand us we have to make them understand who ever there may be family, or friends.

Second is time we won't get time  for our self.due to busy schedule.

Third is our  priorites our likes dislikes

Most importantly our passion our career .

And some time  feeling like  a stranger and guest  in our own house .

Sacrificing our sleep, favrote food,

No parties  and many more .

Leaving our family ,friends,favourite corners of our house .

 And Our dressing sense will also be change 

There can be many good  changes can also be seen 

Like we will become responsible 

 We will become Independent.

And by facing many hurdlers and task we can develope our  personality, 

We will be more confident and clear but our goals  and do's and dont's.

We will get the clarity about  people who are in our favour or against us .

So every thing in this world has its own advantages and disadvantages . But the thing is we have to figure out its advantages at right time and right place