Hello, this is Sushmitha J  here, I'm here with my 2nd blog this is pretty personal because, I've been through many awful situations in my life. It has nothing to do with my intelligence or my academics still people blame me for not doing any changes in my body and not making it beautiful as others. Is that important make someone feel low just because of your looks? It is pretty much interrogating my mind for last few years. I've always been bullied for the way I'm this is particularly ridiculous as I was one of the victim. 

      Is this always important that we need to be fine? If I am okay with the looks I have then what can be the issue with the society. You may have also seen many writers, speakers and many social media influencer talking about the problem caused by the very own society. But, the awareness stays within the people for a while not forever. I am sick of this people who does this. Is this is the problem with the society or the victims who gets bullied for no reason. Do you think it is a fair situation to be in. Making fun of someone is good until it is not making offensive statements over the other. You never know how it affects the victim's mental health very badly. 

YOU NEVER KNOW 

     When you hit somebody verbally for their looks, it is going to be really hard for the person who have literally gone through many situations like over the same. It is easy to pass on comments one over the other. But, being and handling the situation with a pretty smile on face needs more courage. What if you were bullied, for some reasons which you are not actually happy with it. This sounds worse right! So, think before once you talk. I AM NOT ACCUSING THE PEOPLE OVER HERE YOU JUST NEED TO KNOW THE PAIN BEHIND THE WORDS. This can happen only when put ourselves in the victim's situation. That is what I am trying to convey you beautiful people over there with my blog. 

JUST POSITIVE VIBES 

     If you have no problem with your skin texture, body type etcetera you should not care about the thought of others. LOVE AND EMBRACE YOURSELVES for the way you have been made and the way you exist. Your existence is more important than the filthy words and thoughts people throw on us. Let's grow bold and strong together. The changes should happen only when you are ready from your innerself. BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT, NOT FOR THE SAKE OF OTHERS.

                           "One for all and all for one".

“I want to be beautiful and strong not cute and bubbly”.

WITH LOVE, 

SUSHMITHA J.