Published Jun 19, 2021
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Developing A Positive Mindset

Published Jun 19, 2021
2 mins read
452 words

How easy is it to do this? Do you think it’s something that can be achieved in an instant or it takes cultivating? Being Optimistic is a beautiful feeling once you achieve it. It helps you in every single aspect of your life. Having said that, it’s not always easy to be positive. Getting distracted from your path nearly takes a second but at the same time, cultivating a positive mindset takes a lot of time.

Someone very famous once said that “You can’t just come into someone’s life, make them feel special & then leave”. Yes. Indeed this is true. That actually hurts but have you ever tried seeing that with a different perspective? I know it’s not easy. Nothing worthwhile ever is!

Yes you are ♥

What I am trying to say is,  try to think - that person came into my life to remind me that I AM SPECIAL. Have you ever thought like this? Maybe you forgot that you were special & amazing! That person came into your life just to remind you of the very same thing. 

Try to Train Your Mind to think & see things from a different perspective. A positive point of view. I am not saying that this is easy, it needs time, but it isn’t impossible. I have done this.

A few months ago, I was told that I am the most negative person ever. Because I was scared about certain things & was used to thinking what if it went wrong? What if he doesn’t like me? What if I don’t get it? What if it gets ruined? What if I am not capable? It made the simplest tasks feel impossible. That what-if actually grew into a deep-rooted tree filled with fear, insecurity, overthinking, anxiety & panic, which ultimately lead to depression. And honestly, I struggled a lot to get out of it. I am still in the process of eliminating that tree completely. But, now that I have trained my mind to be positive, it has helped me overcome that fear. Feels amazing to remember that I was always capable from the very beginning. 

You were always that beautiful, amazing & confident person. You had just forgotten about it. In a way, that person who left you, helped you remember that, so be happy. And honestly, it’s their loss to lose someone as awesome as you. You are much more worthy & capable than you give yourself credit for. Always remember that. So, from now on try to see things from a different POV. Be positive, achieve everything that you always wanted to. Nothing is impossible for you to do.

I am proud of you. You do you beautiful ♥

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_selenophile_ 6/19/21, 3:38 PM
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Well written Check mine as well
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priya.kamal 6/19/21, 6:20 PM
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Excellent blog 👌👌 I believe in unity
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sumitsing 6/20/21, 3:58 AM
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tkratika 6/20/21, 5:17 AM
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harikatammina 10/4/21, 5:10 AM
Well written Do read mine too
whiteear 11/30/21, 8:41 AM
s e e n R e a d. m i n e. t o o. F o l l o w. m e. t o. g e t f o l l o w e r s
auwela 1/24/24, 11:44 AM
Very well written

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