Have you ever felt why this happens to you only? Maybe in the positive or negative sense, this is a question that crosses the path of all. A good instance makes the answer to the question fun, while a lousy instance is enough to kill the buzz.
"If you believe it'll work out, you'll see opportunities. If you don't believe it'll work out, you'll see obstacles." – Wayne Dyer.
This is true with our daily life as well. Life is a crazy roller coaster ride. When you think that all the slopes are over, a new slope is ready to take you by surprise. Now either you can scream and curse or can smile and enjoy; the perception and choice are totally yours.
The funniest thing about perception is that it changes for every person, every situation, and is also based on what one has accomplished and what one seeks to accomplish. For some, every morning is a blissful start of the day to try new and achieve better, while for some, it's just another crappy day with nothing to be happy about.
"…there is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so."
~ William Shakespeare, Hamlet
Events that happen in life cannot be characterized as good or bad on a set of benchmarks. Sometimes, the meaning of the occurrence is way beyond the understanding. A small instance like asking you to complete a challenging task at work can be perceived either way. If you are a hustler and wish to prove yourself, this is an opportunity, but if you think this is an obstacle to your growth, you will see it as the roadblock.
Some of the crucial tips to gain positive perception in life are:
So, lead through the lens of power you have and take things around you positively. Rather than feeling "why me," think of it as "Wow me." A slight change of perception can do wonders. Believe in yourself and experience new challenges with positivity. Positive perception is all you need to boost your day.
Just believe, “What people in the world think of you is really none of your business.” ― Martha Graham