There are lot of people who treat that their desease or disability whether they are deaf and dumb or suffering from OCD as if they ar totally sucked or couldn't do anything about it so the best they do is they avoid taking responsibility for the same they think it was gods decision to make them disabled so its not something deliberately choosen by them and in this way they show all people with them as he or she is very miserable. It is very true that it is not his or her fault but that doesn't mean that they can run away with their responsibility they will have to take the onus of what happened. once i was in college, i love to play poker and thought of pursuing it as a professional carrier, i won good amount of money and even after playing for years and consistently doing well i left playing all at once, I quit. I had inculcated the habbit of waking up all night and staring at computer screen. I used to win thousands of dollar in one day and would loose all money on another day, i didn't want to continue with this life and at the end i realized it was not for me and it was not the healthy and emotionally correct way of earning for lifestyle but i must say that by playing poker i have learned to see my life in a very different way. If you have ever played poker then you must be knowing that their is involvement of luck but luck is not the main thing to win for a long run. A person can get a poor card but eventually beat the person with great cards. It is sure that person with great card has more chances of winning the game but still the ultimate winner is decided by the yes you guessed it right the choices you make throughout playing the game. 

i also see life in same terms we all get different cards and some of us get better cards than the other while it is easy to get worried of our cards we feel that we are screwed or will suffer but the real game lies in the choices of cards we choose during the game. The risk we take to get most of the situation and the very consequences we want to live with.