The love of your life or the business contact who will transform your future may not be at the party however he or she will be present some where. make every party a rehearsal for that big event, capture whatever or whomever you want in your life. Be a human magnet not a human repellent arrange your body in the open position especially your arms and  hands. Track the tiniest details of your conversation partner's life. Right after you have talked to someone at a party take out the pen on the back of his or hes business card write notes to remind you of conversation like their favorite restaurants, likes etc. cool communicator alloe their friend, acquaintance the pleasure myth of being above common place bloopers and embarrassing biological function. whenever someone story is aborted, let the interruption play itself out. give them some time and remember where they were abd tgen ask and what happened after that and repeat their last few words. when you do someone a favor and its obvious that he owes you one wait a suitable amount of time before asking him to pay. Big players even when standing next to enemies at the parties, smile and nod. They leave tough talks for tougher settings. during dinner together is a time when we should not bring out no pleasant matters. we must talk about business and positive thinking etc. If you are negotiating keep the melody of your voice meeting sweet and light otherwise it could turn into fight. If yiu need information then let people have their entire say first wait patiently until they are empty. its the  way to make their tank empty enough of their inner noise and they can hear you. facts speak emotion shout hear people emotions and emphasize with their emotions. when you catch someone lying. dont confront dirty duck directly unless it is your responsibility or unless you are saving other innocent victim by doing so let them come out of their trap and never pay attention in future. we all are from inside a scaredy cat who is anxious about crowd acceptance. we must give positive response to our lisyeners. clap when you agree with someone. greet everyone you meet with a warm smile, pay full attention like a baby. you must match their mood and voice tone and then speak. you should always know about day  today news. before answering you must think before replying is you answer impressing them, or your answer is good enough to get what you want.