Hi friends 🙂, welcome back to my new blog. Are you being alone ? Are you feeling lonely ? Then don't worry about it friends. I'm here to share about a six secrets to find yourself. With no further delay let we straightly jump into the topic……
First of all remove all your feelings from being alone.being alone not only makes us to worry, feeling alone also makes us to worry. This is the point where we know to find ourselves. We people have the biggest mistake that is we try to know others interest ,other people favourites in everything they do , without knowing ourselves first. So if you wish to loved by someone , then first thing you have do is love yourself. Apart from all these we love to keep others happy , but we don't ever do it for ourselves.
“Knowing yourself is the begining of all wisdom”
---- Aristotle..
Stop chasing others, I think this you have to do particularly in Love relationships. Chasing hit you back , and you get hurted more in every single moment. One thing every one has to know is , if your chasing someone which means they don't want to be with you. And that the time you must chase yourself, your personal development and personal growth, passion , chase your way towards your goal. At any point don't chase others.
Now take your own time to utilise yourself first and recreate all your talents which you have before. Think about all your faded talents and brings it out right now. Even you may have many ideas , talents to execute in your childhood days , for some kind you won't able to do it at that time , and now take Use of it in your life and do it in a better way.
This is the best time you can use it by acquiring and learning something new things. Where we get happiness through our new learnings , our new achievements . And also you can utilise this precious time by reading books. You can also listen to your favourite music.
Don't live your life just like that,…. Have some intension in it. Each and everything you process must have some intension. There must be a purpose in doing everything. Whether it may be spending time with others or your time which you spend in doing something. So start crafting your life….
Always be a speaker and listener to yourself. Everything in your hand. The best ever meeting in a day is only with yourself. You can speak with yourself, motivate yourself, judge yourself , understanding your emotions by yourself . each and every single moment you can interact with yourself. At that point your making yourself comfortable in being alone.
Men and women were given the option to either spend time alone with their thoughts for fifteen minutes, or give themselves an electric shock. Roughly 30percent of women gave themselves an electric shock, and around 60 percent of men chose the electric shock . Instead using an escape , instead of finding another person or things to get attached to, learn to be comfortable and at peace with your own thoughts. Maybe it's through mindfulness, maybe through meditation or maybe just journaling . If we never learn to be alone, we'll always feel that we're lonely… ………….
Talk to yourself once in a day… otherwise you may miss meeting an excellent person in this world.
- swami vivekananda
Thanks for Reading 🙂
~ Rekha
