Read the title?
Familiar isn't it?
Yes Crush at first sight is a thing. Atleast 80% of us know about it and the rest 20% know about it too but they neglect it by saying “what rubbish”.
Most of the single people will relate with the title.And when I say relate I mean they are thinking about their crush while reading this. This is the beauty of this phenomenon.
How we can imagine that one person while listening a song and let our friends tease us with that particular name.How we imagine those cute scenarios that mostly happen in bollywood.How we feel like we are in a relationship while we are not.
And that honestly is the best part of it. Being in a relationship without being in a relationship. It's like we date our mind.
This particular area needs no expertise.Though I remember irritating my crush this one time.So may be I'm wrong and atleast some books must be written about this topic by someone who have conquered the awkwardness in their crush's presence.
This one time one of my female friend received a letter or should I say a love letter from a guy who used to drop everything from his hand when she was around. She was irritated.
And then in few days after this incident she took advice from me for giving a Letter to his crush.
Funny how I could see karma playing it's role but she couldn't.
Having a crush is great until that crush crushes your feelings. In some cases may be he/she won't but probability rate of the first condition is high. But the part to observe is how? How this crush thing made by god crushes your feelings. Because this can turn a person into a thing. If he/she is monstrous about it then my friend that one person can turn into a emotionless stone.
Being someone's crush can be a responsibility of its own. And rejecting someone or neglecting them with harshness in your voice can be easy for you but you don't know what impact it is making on them.
So whichever side you are..try to stay Kind.
And in many cases it turns into a beautiful journey.
I have heard from many that crush is a teenage thing,that when you are an adult you look for something serious and do not seek that crush thingy feeling.
But do we ?
How great can it be if we have a Crush in that “something serious”. ❤️