Hai All, Hurray! This is my first ever blog , happy to be here.
I am sowmyaDinesh feeling excited to write a blog which i have never ever thought that i can do it
yeah now coming to the Topic
We all have expectations. Of ourselves, but also of our partners, friends, family, colleagues, jobs, government, and more. Right now, as you read this, you have an expectation that this post will be helpful or interesting to you. (Hopefully not the exact opposite). And these expectations, which are rarely neutral, have a lot of power over the course and quality of our lives and the lives of those around us.
I personally heard many times from my friends, Never expect from anyone so that you will be happy. This hits hard like why i should not expect and we are all human beings right , we all expect from our parents, spouse, partner, friend, children etc., and the same way others also will expect from us too
The logic is simple , you have to be the person who fulfill others expectation so that automatically all will fall in place
Life is so simple and at the same time unpredictable. So be happy and fulfill all your dreams also your partners dreams too who are very much close to you
And now am saying Expectation wont hurt if you are handling the expectation which is expected from you
What makes us happy in our life? Well definitely when we get a good deal of our expectation. But sometimes, I feel saying or doing without any expectation and getting the best results out of it, is so mesmerizing. One hand we don’t expect anything and on the other side when we get to experience that wholesome feeling, we are nothing but equally charged up and excited to have the fun at its best. So am not saying or not in a way to tell you that don’t dream or expect, one should expect things but to overdo of anything can lead a disastrous field open ahead for us. Let’s not get that way, expecting from one own is good as it gives you a dimension to measure your capability. But at the same time expectation built on others can prove frustrating at times and should be avoided naturally as this is something which will not yield anything good to us ever. So, packing up things for our own is better said than done and we should focus on a good version of ourselves.
Last but not the least “ Do expect and be as expected ” happy living
Thanks all for reading my first blog
Good bye.. See you soon..
Best regards,
SowmyaDinesh