Hello everyone! I hope you are all doing well ! Have you guys thought that  In our life , a question with “What if” would be always be presistent 

It' s like we always undervaluate ourselves atleast once in our lives, it could be based on your physical appearance, your past mistakes, or could be anything.

We always ask ourselves, 

~ What if i was slight prettier ?    ~ What if i was a little slimmer?    ~What if i am a taller person?     ~What if i done the thing happened at past in different manner ?                                   ~What if i didn't get the job?            ~ What if i didn't pass the exam?      and etcetera

It always for someone a second nature to be pessimistic in every aspect of their lives but it isn't  always bad ,it is okay to have a back up plan but don't ever think negative about your appearance because once you have created a image of yourself as a inattractive one , you tend to engage in unhealthy lifestyle behaviours such as  restrictive eating, overexercising and other disordered eating or weight control behaviours. Then ultimately the thing that define “You” tend to be deteriorated. 

It is tough to get comfortable in your own skin at first, if you think you are unattractive but it is not impossible one because atlast all matter is that your inner beauty because physical beauty fades over time but inner appearance never changes. So get out of your shell and start changing this judgemental society ,because we youngsters with open minded personality are what this society need atlast,Not some egosistic, narcissistic persons who think physical appearance is all that matter.

Let me say my own personal experience,see i am person of 5'8 ft height girl ,which is actually a lot taller in our country India,as most people are about 5'1 to 5'6 ft.so in high school i always been tallest girl in my class, everytime when i see someone new in school ,they say like “OMG! You are so tall, i need to wear heels to stand near you”  and more. I have be ashamed of my height at the time and lacked confidence beacause of that but two things happened in my life that changed my view on appearance. One,when i started to dance classical dance and became very good at it and the height prospective gave me a center role in almost all performance which almost gave me comfortability and confidence in my own skin.but still outside these dance shell i still felt insecure.that changed when a friend said to me when i was a taking a group selfie( you know beacause of my height,i always had this habit to lower myself to my friend's height to take a selfie), she told me “Don't do that! You are tall girl ,own upto it!” that one statement made me think all the things i have done because of my height.so nowsdays as a college graduate ,if someone says" you are so tall", i would always say “so what, the world is better up here or now my parents can find me if i am lost ”

So never ever judge yourself or others based on their physical appearance ,past mistakes or anything ,take time to know them.