Hey guys!! It's been a long since i have posted a blog as my college work have been hectic and all,so moving on to the topic, we learned from our young age that we need to follow what our parents are saying us do ,but is what parents preaching us is always been right?? We are not really sure about that

For instance ,at our parents young age, there has been major discrimination between a girl and a boy.The freedom of choice for children are restricted and most importantly not having turst on their child and the mentality to say “it is okay that you have done wrong”.

Most sophisticated indian parents of female children want their child to be follow their order,never say No to them,follow their footsteps,should never become a bad name in the society, even in some household male children would also face this.This has been going till now

I am not saying that this is our parents faults or their parents ,it's just how our society has been working for so long ,so they got comfortable around it.

That's why our parents are treating these ideas as a normal thing and thinks that this how it should be and starting teaching us the same way,but it shouldn't be like that, let our generation make the changes and become more open minded with them( our children).

The main thoughts that i think, it is necessarily should be instilled in our future generation are,

1.It is okay to make mistakes, there is not right or wrong doing a thing( as in anything).someone else wrong may seem right to you or vice versa.

2.Don't let the society influence a decision for you, Do you own thing against all odds.

3.Be a risk taker.love hard ,work hard in whatever you think to do 

4.Don't say sorry,unless you feel that what you did is wrong.because some people say ,"just say sorry and move on" but we kept on doing that we depicts its purpose and all.

5.Be friendly and open minded or try to be because your child may become someone other than what you have expect.you should embrace them rather than degrace them

6.Give freedom to them,because lack of freedom tends to create distance between you and your children.and this may be lead them to not trust you enough to talk incase of any problem

7.Never compare,children who mostly  depressed are the one's whose families compare each and every activities of the child with the other.a children who is not good in studies may become a great artist, who knows? Let them find their ikigai with you acting as a back bone(a constant moral support).

8.Mostly importantly ,allow them to make mistakes in finding love ,never force them to marraige unless they wish for.

9.Never ever judge your child by their wrong doing.

These would create a healthy strong between the parents and their children.so,let's get up from our confortable seats and start making changes!

To the future generation! Let's not repeat the same mistakes that others did,create new😉