First of all,We must know what does the communication actually means instead of sticking up to the typical concept our society or rather to be precise ,our locality has setup. People when say word communication they only mean vocal one but it do includes the written one.The way you right or present your word.If you want to excel in your speaking skills you must excel in writing part,as said a great orator hides practical writing skills,Now you may argue over the fact!That why is necessary to do so,we do have writers job role for that purpose Why would an anchor write for itself? Indeed They do surely have a team but when we talk about this stage in process of improvising your oratory skills,believe me you will have to become one man army!
By this I mean you will have to be writer,editor,orator,analyst and the unbiased judge.When I say you have to be a writer it does not at all mean that you should be one who has all poetic charm and aura to lucraete masses or have collection of ideas and words to create a novel but basics never do harm,thats why you should write for overall improvement. You must think that writing is highly private affair ,you won't be able to express yourself in words on pages how could you do that at podium in front of masses,Now again I know the people who can't write at all,but their speech can conquer heart of masses or say people who possess aura to create scenario of civil war,Exceptions are always there …Believe me.I will talk in general about the ways so,here they are-:
1.Realization -The most crucial part of any journey is realisation that why you wanna proceed to the journey?Where are you standing?Why you actually want to excel in this journey,as reason acts as motivating force!What methods you tried before?Why you failed on them and were outcome and so on.Make your own questionaire and give self analysed and honest answers. Believe me this turmoil will work as driving force ,as self asked questions and self generated answers combines to do wonders.
Be your Ally-: Do friendship with yourself in order to succeed,As you are the one who love yourself(Now don't question your relation;) )you won't judge yourself that way,I bet you!The scene is, generally we are surrounded by the people rather say who are either your entertainment or you are theirs.By this I do not mean that they aren't your well-wishers,its just the chance of overall personality growth is less,like our group of friends amidst whom you might burst in laughter but when you will try to talk in order to inprove your oratory skill, it might be a mess they might judge you,or take you lightly.In general they will ,thus why to rely upon others? Be your critic ,Be your analyst ,Write it up,Read it up &Kudos you are on the way.
Utilise your Phone's Notepad-: You use your phone as couch potato,but how many times a day you tried to share the things with your bestie?I mean try to share up the things by writing in Notepad at the end of the day,Your activities , your ignorance to stuffs,Your drawbacks,Things you got grip upon.Be calculative and filter up the things and express.By this way you are doing two super productive things ,first is using that rectangular buddy for keeping up your records making it feel useful and you are working upon your thought process,which gets added as a mental exercise.
Record it up-: As now you wrote it,Away from eyes of people whisper it all in her ears , I mean Speak up opening up your recorder ,record it and listen up .Again it will have two perks, First is you gonna listen your works by you,the best judge and critic thus you can introspect and second is you will know how you spoke,and that is how gradually you will acquainted to the ways you should not speak up!You will get a hand upon pauses,speaking expressions and tone ,everytime you will listen yourself you will the improvement,Take the record of first day and 30th ,you won't be same.I guarantee there will be a huge change,and for the good. You will watch your improvisation journey yourself.
Take the ultimate initiative for yourself -: I know you already took many ,but believe me this will be the last or say ultimate one ,Do try to say your thoughts loud ,I know you might be wrong sometimes ,may regret why I spoke up like moron but let me tell you,your mind will praise you for your efforts. When You will start taking initiative,you will be at a happier place, at peace of mind where you wanted to be somedays ago! ‘As said people regret for the things left done’ thus don't land there to tell them your ideas, thought process and your take on things. You will realise soon that this is completion of your journey or rather say great start.You will feel confident,improved and satisfied as you excelled in this journey ,But don't consider it the end your journey has millions more milestones to achieve…Thus keep going,Keep communicating and more than Don't stop!!!!
