When you were a kid and lost your favorite toy, you looked for it in each corner of the house and cried for hours. But, when your mother got you another one, you soon forgot about that toy and the new one became your favorite. When you experienced your first heartbreak at the age of fifteen, you thought life was unfair. You started hating the word ‘love’ because the one who was supposed to be yours was out on a coffee date with someone else. You drowned yourself in sad songs and swore that you'd never fall in love again. But with time, you got better and understood that it was no more than an infatuation. Or maybe it was love which was not meant to be yours.
You might shattered. You didn't see this coming. You never anticipated living a life without them in it. You were supposed to get married, have two kids and spend your 80s with them, laughing and loving. Without them, your life feels incomplete.
But one thing you should not forget is that you are different. You don't understand the concept of finding lovers online because you are old school and you'd rather write letters than swipe left or right. It is okay, it doesn't make you uncool, it makes you... You. It is okay if you don't necessarily enjoy the same things that most of the people do. It is okay if you like pineapple on your pizza and prefer cozy evenings in the comfort of your room over clubbing with your friends.
You don't have to change your dressing style because others think that yellow doesn't match your skin tone or floral tees make you look weird. You wear clothes that you feel comfortable in. You should not change yourself to make people love you. You don't have to sit through a 3 hour long movie or go out every day to prove to your friends that you can also have ‘fun’. It is okay if your definition of fun doesn't match theirs.
The most amazing thing about you is that there is nobody else like you. You are one of a kind to this whole world. Because we all are different. We all have our own stories of love and heartbreak, success and failure, joy and sadness, and trust me, if we all were the same, our lives would've been devoid of excitement and madness. So, be yourself always, because you are perfect the way you are, so go on and fall in love with your uniqueness.