Hey everone!
I am writing this with a lot of sentimentality to feel a little lighter. Please bear with me and my feelings.
There was a time when I wanted to cry but couldn't. Everyone around me made me feel like crying isn't a solution to the things going around me and I have to be strong for my loved ones. They were completely right on their part but the phase I went through was not easy for me and there was so much grief inside me that even crying couldn't heal me at that time. Losing someone you love the most isn't the worst thing anyone could ever go through? In such situation, words don't suffice. All you need to do is hug someone you love, let your tears flow down and share what you feel if you can.
Some people see watery eyes as a sign of weakness, but a good cry can be just the release you need as your not so-preety emotions require strength. Carrying all baggages around is detrimental for your emotional health. So letting go of such baggages through your tears help you feel little bit lighter. After all, emotional crying is what makes you human!
If everything isn't okay, don't say it is. Do share your feelings with your loved ones and if you want to cry just do it in front of them because they are the ones who love you and will be there to hold you. But sometimes it happens, even if you want to share, you just can't do it because of crying and all. I can totally relate to this. I had lovely people with me in my tough times but being a stupid I didn't share my feelings with them because I didn't want to create more trouble and uncomfortable as I messed up a lot already. It's a long story for which I am really ashamed of myself and sorry for my deeds.
I Want to say one thing to those who find someone they love are crying in front of them, you don't need to fix it, just be there when they are letting it out and a hug is all they need. 🤗
To those who can relate to this post, don't be afraid of looking weak. No matter what you are going through, be strong and deal with it. Have a good cry if you need to. Release a few tears and lighten the emotional load.
