Hey guys. Hope everybody is doing good and in case you are not this is the blog for you .

Love, care, intimacy and affection are the most important feelings that a person needs and wants . For a relationship to be successful i deeply believe that communication is key and essential. A relationship is a beautiful yet a complicated adventure. At the initial stages of the relationship the two different people come together and decides to be one where they are comfortable and honest with each other. Trust, respect and appreciation are so crucial  in a relationship but when either one of them are not comfortable with each other they build up frustrations and eventually part ways. Completely forgetting about the person you were with and the memories shared will always be there in your mind and in your heart but as people say time changes everything. The only constant that you have in your life is yourself and your family. No other person should affect your mind to such an extent where you feel like there is nothing left to live for. Breaking up after years of relationship is always going to be tough as you battle yourself emotionally for days and weeks and months. I personally feel that until and unless you are happy and at peace with yourself no amount of external love will ever work. So after a breakup we all go through a dark phase in our lives and tend to make a certain poor and substandard choice. The only thing that you need to do is give yourself some space and give it time. Keeping busy is also going to help you after a break up . Speak with your friends and hang out with them. Honestly there is no point in feeling denial or anger anymore because your other half might not even have any feelings for you. It's a wound that's not going to heal at speed. There are sleepless nights and you tend to be apathetic. Its normal and its fine. Trust the process and remember the pleasing and the beautiful memories you have had with that person in your past. Cherish all the moments and just know that sometimes relationships are non-permanent for the few unlucky ones but you will have gained new experience and will be indestructible once you can start and live with yourself. Don't try to even be in a place where you are not loved and respected. We all deserve much more and know that you can survive this. To finally conclude take care of yourself.