Have you ever wondered what is the one thing you want in a relationship from your potential partner? The trait which is absolute necessity to you. I have been wondering about this for long time, my friends used to ask me what did I want in a guy I wanna be with and nothing would come to my mind. I was speechless at very topic. But I have been wondering and I think I found the one thing that I absolutely need and that is equality.

I am all about equal give and take kind of personality. I don't believe in the fact that first you have to give yourself all up and then you will receive I don't live by that moto and to be honest it's very toxic as per my perspective. Don't you think you are obligated to return the love you are receiving or amount of respect you are receiving. For me it's a life line. I hate any sort of bias I wanna be treated with love and respect that I give you. But most people don't understand the concept because they are so use to being at the recieving end that they think it's their right and forget to treat the other person same way. 

And there comes the point when person who keeps giving becomes so drained that he/she can't give anymore and they start to think what was point of being in the relationship in the first place. And when they decide to leave the other person wake up from the coma and realise they are gonna loose that person (it is one scenario) and they start to give them attention, love and respect that you always wanted and that phase might last a lifetime or pass you by a split second. I think relying on their effort is not the option you wanna consider. 

I think it is base of any relationship, eual give and take taht what you look for in your partner, in your friend and anyone you wanna create a special bond. I am waiting for someone who will understand that. Also I get the point not everyone is perfect and you have to accept their flaws but if someone is doing bare minimum and acting this who they are and you are trying to change them, trust me you are better off. This is a manipulation tactic don't fall for it. Stating what you want isn't self when it's in power of that person to do that for you. Just don't get caught up in that loop where their mistakes starts to become their habits and instead of being a priority you become a mere option to them.

Equality is freedom to me it's everything I want from a person love me like I love you, miss me like I miss you, fall for me like I felt for you. Equal give and take it's so alluring. Embracing and thinking what I want has healed me in certain way, opened my eyes to a possibility that I could be everything to someone and I would be able to do the same. I am waiting to love someone unconditionally and loved back.

I hope it will keep you thinking what you want in your relationships.Trust the process you are better off toxic people there are people out there who vibe with you. Start manifesting good things and it will be brought to you in a magnificent way.