“ Something Will grow from all you are going Through. And it will be You." -Anonymous.
“Those eyes are still wet, It may be the sweat, caused by constant and searching for those who were gone or they Might be crying.
Some times those eyes, Laugh too, but they never stop searching except this one time , when the eyes are sweating."
Grief is the only thing that unites the world after love. The pain we endured can be sympathized any where in the world and we can find console from those recovered too.
The world is belonged to a single clan linked to one another with chains.
A friend linked with another and also with a foe. You are still connected, even if you think of him as an enemy. Just your chain is called enmity and it is long enough to push each other away, but it never breaks away.
The Chain Rule :
These chains will create a safe and cozy world around us, turning a world with living beings into something more with depth.
Now, The world is physical; Not by laws but by philosophy.
If something is physical, it can be touched or felt as per laws
But the most abstract things, that cant be touched, can be felt by world , by us. Think of something like emotions; we can feel them, right.
Everything we call a need, is meant to be either touched or felt by us.
Chills in the winter and sweat in the summer became chills is the winter and sweat is the summer.
We tagged everything in the world with a name to call it and to hold it dear. Like a pet, we put a chain on it, the chain we discussed above.
We always do that ,we Pictures the imagination , we paint the words and we immerses in the experiences and we breathe the life. Some thing abstract is converted into physical.
A picture is a physical form of imagination, faceless like imagination now has a face and it can communicate the message of artist to the world.
we do this to everything, this process of turning the faceless into something with face. WE ARE LINKING A CHAIN.A chain of relationship ,chain of need and a chain of experience.
A Man/woman you loved is chained with you ,like your favorite song or your favorite restaurant.
These links are irreplaceable ,once you are chained and you cant be replaced even when the person is dead.The other end of the chain is always attached.
The Status quo -
World is always a metaphor and it is never physical. Life is an experience and it is not physical ; it can be but it is not meant to be.
So life and death is Just a process of a face becoming faceless, re instated into its previous and true form.
When we lose some one we love ,(I don't say 'untimely', we are never prepared to lose them, whether it is timely or not); we felt like we were lost, lost in the middle of a sea.
We search for those we lost in that void. we cry ,we scream, we struggle and feel rage and sorrow; cause the other end of the chain looks empty.
The truth is; It looks empty but it is never empty.
The girl once you loved now become the love itself, transformed into her true form.
Now you can feel her, after all she is the physical manifestation of your love.
I know, it is not easy to think this positive when it happened, but this kind of thinking will help you when you are ready to face the world again.
The Sapling :
When there is a storm, the after math of it is always filled with fallen trees, with those huge trunks and branches all over.
But the sapling, search for a sapling after a storm, the chances are that it will be intact.
Because it is chained to a fallen seed. The seed will hold it with all of its life and protect the sapling(new beginning.
The trees will perish and but the sapling of a fallen seed will stay strong.
Those who are fallen, will always protect those on the other end of the chain with even more power than before.
The chain will only get stronger and we will feel them as summer, as winter ,as a perfect cup of coffee and as a drop of rain.
If one can relive their favorite moments together happily even after losing them ,They are feeling those on the other end of chain and they are having each others company, like nothing happened.
To All Those saplings struggling to grow under the shadow of grief…
Thanks and peace.