Love yourself, easier to say but difficult to implement. Loving yourself is the very first thing you can do to move forward in life.
In this judgemental society, you will face a lot of issues. You will get to hear a lot of things about yourself, your complexion, your physique, and even your success.
These problems will force you to question yourself. You will start having insecurities, will often question yourself about your abilities, you will keep on thinking that something must be wrong within you, but no, it is not true.
I would like to share my personal story that happened to me when I was an amateur. I was so perfect that a lot of people can't accept my success. I never failed my exams, I was too focused on my journey. But while following my dreams I never worried about my flaws as I was too focused. Of course, everyone has some flaws that they wanna hide. But I never cared, ya, many times I tried to improve my flaws(of course I am talking about visual flaws ).
So the problem began when people started to point me out. Like they keep on talking about my fashion that is too baggy and boyish kind of, my hair and hairstyle that I barely change. They keep on telling me that you should follow the modern era lifestyle and should change your old-fashioned look. You should start applying some girly stuff like makeup, lipstick, and all, wear some girly clothes. The dilemma arose when I started listening to them and started following whatever they said. This all task was caused to distract me, and thankfully I understood that but too late. Still, I am happy that I overcame that(Better Late Than Never).
To cure this, You just need to love yourself and that is the ultimate solution for these perpetual thoughts and that's what I did.
You will just have to believe in yourself.
You have to believe that you are beautiful just the way you are.
Even though you have a dark spot, you are still beautiful.
If you have pimples or acne, you are still beautiful.
If you have a dark complexion, you are still beautiful.
And if you are having scars or any other, you're still beautiful.
Just stop listening to others, listen to what your heart says. Stay away from toxicity and just find the real you. Love yourself as well as speak yourself.
I just wrote what my heart says, without a second thought. Hope it will help y'all. Keep loving yourself and stay happy.