When you hear the love word what comes to your mind?

Love, at first sight, the guy chases the girl and then the girl starts falling, and then their relationship starts and with time their arguments also stats then what? then the guy does something for forgiveness and they live happily after. Does this really happen you'll know the answer it is in fairy tales and movies etc? This idea of love has been settled between us by our great Bollywood, TV shows, 

Its been almost 10 years of the release of yeh jawani hai dewaani. and if you see bunny today what do you think would've happened to him. His dream job that he is been chasing for years left it for Naina. He left his dream and he did what he did not want to do which is stopping. What do you think after these years he might be regretting his decisions. When his youth will be gone won't he think “I wish I had taken the job”

This is the problem with Bollywood love theories they do not show what happens after the love story and because of these false expectations we started to think of this kind of sacrifice from our partners which is almost impossible in real lives then they start fighting which leads to the destruction of a good relationship. But this is not it even after relationships we are taught the amount of pain you bear the strong your relationship will get. 

We are taught that burning in love and dying is a glorified act. Bearing all the pain in a one-sided relationship. But this theory did not let us move on which is the most important problem among people. This is just a part of our lives like career, family, and most importantly happiness. Because of these bad ideologies and expectations, today finding a partner has gone difficult. Earlier it wasn't that hard to find a life partner only basic needs like food, a decent home to live in, a good career, and sex but now we want our life partner as a best friend, a good cook, etc and the list never ends 

And now we have an online dating concept which makes us picky as we have a lot of choices etc well you believe it or not dating is mentally expensive. so stay single for a while finding something that makes you focus on yourself. Spend time with yourself and focus on your career because dating isn't our whole life