Why we categories work or everything on the basis of gender why we do that ? why we make other gender feel that you have to born in a specific gender to do some certain things. 

Like I said who are those people who divide work and says this is for women or this is for men. Why we all physically work give to male person why we think thaa women can't do this only men can do because women don't have that much strength why we assume things why we don't give women a chance. According to me for doing any work you don't need to be a specific gender you just need some practice if you practice then you can do because if men don't do physically exhausted work from their childhood so even they also face difficulties for doing work.

And same goes for men why men can't put make up why men can't put nail polish why men can't grow his hair why can't men cook why can't men wear any accessories I know most of the people say that nowadays both men and women are doing such things but you also know that when they do this things most of our society is not accepting and start staring like something wrong happened which should not supposed to happen. So what I am saying that men also can do what they want and what make them happy. And all this mostly happened in india we bound our child with so many restrictions. And don't care about our love ones or ourselves what we feel about this we just shut our mind door so that new idea can't knock.

We some how just start following some so cold societies rule to just fit in which is wrong because when you became successful on any of your work which you like or enjoy doing instead of living in non acceptable or I should say according to their convinent they accept things which sometimes is very late. So the same society who categories things start respecting you and some people also start following. And thinking that is cool to follow. 

Why we wait for success why we can't appreciate even they fail it just a try so they can pass or fail but let them try and don't wait them to fail so you can enjoy their failure.