Hii, my name is sheetal I originally belong to himachal pradesh but my schooling and higher education are from delhi. 

Actually, my father works in delhi so we also come here. We came our village oin ours2 months  summervacation from May to June on our holiday we explore our village life actually not explore but just do some village work which is I personally feel difficult for us because we have exactly different lifestyle in cities which we can easily say nothing close compare to village lifestyle but we came here for very small time period so this didn't bother that much because here they only ask us to do that work which according to them we can do that is their absolutely wrong perception about us. we can do but we need some time they think that if someone age like us who live here from his/her childhood they can do so why can't us but they don't understand that our body or mental strength need sometime to grasp everything for adjusting here. 

During lockdown we already here because we do some construction work here. At that we have more time to understand their lifestyle more closely. Now I understand that on which our village people thinking have to change they are still same and which need no change those things are changing like our wedding culture nowadays they are doing same show off which is done by people of cities and they lost their innocence. Which should be changed is their thinking about girls like girls don't need to study because they go away others house after marriage and girls should be wear suit salwar and shouldn't be wear jeans or shorts. They need to understand that clothes have nothing to do with girls upbringing sometimes some suit salwar wearing girls doesn't respect their older and sometime some jeans wearing girls gave respect to older. If we compare both lifestyle or people's nature villagers are more rudely or selfish they only focus on others life compare to watching theirs own child or life which is very messed up.

Firstly there is need to and compulsion to change their thinking which is main reason of their development is still very slow and from this type of thinking they can't achieve something even they won't let other people achieve something.