Yes my question or my concern over the marriage is right because what I see is really not good future for our culture.

Because nowadays people are forgetting about their ritual which is followed at the time of marriage their all focus on show off either girl side or boy side they even made marriage as the competition if anyone do this so we have to bigger than this. Wedding is just become a way to show off that how much money we have or how much we can spend on a marriage and the attitude of that no one can arrange marriage at this high level. I don't understand that this is marriage or a race where you have to be no. 1.

We feel so embarrassed when we have to follow our ritual like ladies Sangeet and dance on folk songs and doing work on marriage And I also don't like when where we have to enjoy the moment what we are waiting for our whole life we just posing for photo which is so artificial because they made you do pose and you forget to enjoy or feel the moment your all focus is on to make your pic good. But for me your photo should be shown your natural feeling and photographer should have to capture those moment which never come in your life again and you never ever get to feel the same as you feel at the time of marriage and you never enjoy this moment ever again at any place. You can remember this in your whole life you can have memory which can remind you all those feelings which you feel at that time.

And most importantly it's put so much pressure on our parents you are doing all this just because of our happiness even they go beyond their limitations to fulfill our high demand which we put in front of them. And they want us to be happy because they think that is our day and we have ti be happy and they don't want that because of them you feel bad. They even can't enjoy your marriage because of all the stress which they have and they have all the right to feel less pressurised because if this is special day for you so as for them because they wait for this day before you and they do all hard work for you.

Lastly marriage should be marriage not a show off if this become show off then it is not marriage for me.