1. Not looking at a budget is exactly the same as not creating one.

2. Possibilities for both greatness and embarrassment exist in the same space. If you are not ready to be shy, you're probably not ready to be great.

3. Don't be shy about asking a counselor or therapist for help. We all have junk that we try to hide by wrapping it under our Christmas tree. Get rid of it before it spoils your entire vacation.

4. Amazing college friends you vowed to stay in touch with after graduation. Well, Well, you may lose touch. Moving across the country, getting married, and having kids makes her 45-minute conversation with her sophomore roommate a little more complicated than previous Mario Kart games. It takes intention to make and keep friends in your 20s.

5. Your 20s will make more mistakes than you remember. What matters is when you fail. Don't start calling yourself a failure.

6. All separations have two separations. I'm no physicist, but I'm pretty sure that's the law of physics. Yes, you'll feel the first tearful ‘done’ in your Honda front seat or parking lot swing. Then she “talked” a month or two later to a “ proper goodbye” because she used to forget tp call or check or waitresses like Miss USA judges. Become, And tighter those hips because there are even more breaks on the second break.

7. Life never feels “as it should be”. At 20, unfulfilled expectations can feel like death. But let me boldly say that right now, at this very moment, you are exactly where you need to be. But it won't be visible 5 years and 38 days from now.

8. Success in your 20s has more to do with setting the table than enjoying a feast. success  in your 20s is about owning, refining, refining, and defining what I call your signature sauce. This is the unique flavor you bring to the world where your passion. purpose and career meet.

9. Marriage won't solve your problems. No, instead, marriage puts a magnifying glass on the number of problems you actually have. We grow up with insecurities, fears, bad relationships, problems with parents and more.

10. Good ideas alone mean nothing. Your ability to endure 16 major setbacks, your lack of passion, your forgetting why you started this great idea in the first place, and all the people implying that your great idea is actually pretty bad-Well, that means everything.

11. The grass on the other side is greener than usual until you get there and realize that's the reason.