Hello there!!

Before reading the blog let me ask you one thing are you a good speaker or a good listener??

Because being a speaker is good but being a patient listener is best. Now you must be thinking what's that, what is she talking about? How could a speaker less than a listener.

But if you notice a knowledgeable person or wise person he is a listener first than a speaker. Because a speaker share you his experience, tell you what to do and what not to. Any person is not comfortable to talk to that person who can't listen him without any judgement or without any life saving experience. He wants to share it to that person who can listen him for hours. And yes that is a fact we all sometimes want just to speak whatever mix thoughts we are having. That time we feel like no one should stop me for hours no one should give me any advise just listen to me.

It doesn't matter how heavy you are feeling if someone listen to you, you will be so much relieved. Even a major “Depression” can be treated by just listening to the sufferer. One of my family member was in depression for so long. Good treatment was effective but he git much better when we started listening ti him, his thoughts, his feelings, his way of seeing things. And yes depression not always lead you to suicide many suffers from their own thoughts they can't even sleep properly.

Many of misunderstanding cause by lack of listening when we are arguing or conversating we speak we don't even try to listen to the other person. That's the reason we end up with great loss.

A speaker is a great motivator but a speaker with listening is such a blast. Try to listen near you it not inly make him feel light but it also improves bond in between.

Being a listener also makes you trust pillar of society. People will love talking to you. A good listener is a good talker with a sore throat. Listening is like an art, not everybody have it but yes you can develop it by having attention, spirit and caring for others. Because for few people listening is the only thing needed.

Well that's all for today. Appreciate and support if it is any useful to you. Have a good day