“ I'm a girl. Looks average, thinks average, I'm not dramatic at all. I do not like to impress people with fakeness. Actually I don't know how to be a fake person. I don't crave for attention. I follow my own rules and I don't want to change myself to fit others. I observe every small thing and everyone . I'm good to those are good to me. I never expect anything from others and I never blame others for bad experience. yes I'm an average girl ”

                                                                This is a quote from Google. But truly , perfectly it is made for me, Not at all for me,  for all girls thinks that they are average. Being an average girl is really difficult. But being an average girl in an average family is terribly difficult. But at this time I have a relaxation, You know what ? My parents are really cool. They support me, And I can say my opinions to them. They accept me. They have their full trust in me.  Every girls freedom is starting from their family. If they can trust their girls , those girls can do anything.

                                      Basically I was born in a Kerala Christian family. And I have 3 sisters. My family  thinks that, when a girl was born, they wants to get proper education and good job. My parents waits for to get a good job. And when we  wants to get married and when we are ready for getting married they gave  the desire and rights to say. But only 10% of parents thought like this. Most of the parents are think like girls children are burden. They wants to spent a lot of money for their wedding  in the name of dowry. And they are not at all interested in getting their children higher education. And most of them are not waited for getting a job for those girls. They want to get rid of their girls .

                                                                                   It's a common dialogue now , “ She can study after getting Married.”  I don't know , why these people are not changing in this century. During the marriage time they are not at all ready for their girls opinion about the marriage. If they attain at the age of 18, they started search for the groom not a proper college for best studies. I know many of my girl friends are now a mother. Most of them are happily married. But they are married at the age of 20. they are not going to a job now. Being a Mother and wife is beautiful and great things, But being a mother cannot destroy your dreams. 

                                                  If a parent thinks that my girls dreams are my happiness, she can do anything. If I'm become a Mother, I will give all the freedom to her. And mostly I will make sure that I'm his or her best friend. Then everything become perfect.

              “EVERY GIRLS FREEDOM STARTS FROM THEIR HOME” .                                                      Be a better parent in future. 

                                                      Thank you