According to a proverb, "people generally come into your life for a cause, a season, or a lifetime."
You'll understand how accurate that is when you consider the individuals who have come and gone from your life thus far. even if the cause of their entrance (and potential departure) wasn't immediately clear.
The truth is that while love is strong, transformational, and beautiful, it doesn't always need to persist for many years in order to have a significant impact on our lives.
We can experience immeasurable beauty, warmth, companionship, and love with a person who’s only in our lives for a short time, and sometimes a shorter relationship that has a marked effect on us can be a lot more satisfying and life-changing than a mediocre connection that lasts 40 years.
Perhaps it was a brief love affair while you were travelling, or a turbulent relationship with someone you adored dearly but who was full of drama and difficulty?
You can probably bet that each event gave you priceless insights into life, love, and your personal identity. It's even possible to be someone you don't want to be or who you aren't.
You might develop more tolerance, understanding, and compassion if you fall deeply in love with someone who pushes you on many levels. As a result, people might experience unconditional love rather than criticism for falling short of someone else's inflated expectations.
A passionate, personal relationship with someone can restore trust, heal old scars, and reveal parts of you that you previously believed were lost. However, those relationships aren't necessarily supposed to remain forever; rather, they're meant to be fleeting, to impart the knowledge that is necessary at the time so that you can both go on and continue to grow and learn.
Many individuals have taken the medicine that tells us that the ideal relationship is the culmination of our efforts. They overlook the fact that the development and experience that come with the partnership itself are what matter.
It's not simply about crossing some finish line that's anticipated to remain in place indefinitely; it's about the time we spend with others, connecting with one another, and aiding one another in growing and evolving into better people.
That can lead to stagnation, resentment, and disdain, and it is important to prevent a love relationship from degenerating into that kind of ugly ugliness. Instead than attempting to hold on to something just to have it wither and die, wouldn't it be better to think fondly of a profound yet transient connection?
Loving relationships are no exception to the rule that everything has a natural life cycle. Again, we've been taught that unless a relationship leads in a marriage or partnership that endures until death, it has been a "failure," yet this is complete nonsense.
Did someone fail at their work if they quit a position they had held for five or 10 years because they needed to change careers? No, they simply realised that they are not the same person they were when they first started and that their needs have changed as a result.
You have changed much since last week, let alone last year or ten years ago. It's unavoidable that many relationships will come to an end once they have fulfilled their intended purpose since people change continually, and not always in the same direction.
This is not a failure; rather, it is personal development, and as such, should be honoured and acknowledged rather than denigrated. extending a relationship beyond what is necessary out of duty or concern.Forcing someone to stay in our life who doesn't worth it is absolutely a terrible disservice.
MOVE ON!!
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