Hey guys, Hope you all are doing well! So I am back after so long as I was busy in my academics but now I am totally free and will continue to write my blogs.
So yeah my today's blog is on a girl who has lost her Virginity…..
If she trusted on someone then is it her mistake? She was the one whose trust was broken, not his. She was the one who was crying that time when he left her alone after having sex and fulfilling his lust. He left him at that time when she needed his man's love and support.
No one will ever say to a man that he was also at the fault. Both the girl and boy were equally at wrong here. But everyone just keep blaming on the girl only. No one understands the situation what she must be going through. He will be nice to her until he gets what he want. But how can one girl discriminate whether that particular man is right or wrong for her. It's already very much difficult for a girl to do so. Don't make it hard by doing such a shameless act. Respect her decision if she has chosen you.
If she is with you, then it means she somewhere trusts you. And if the girl reaches to the bed then that means she has a blind trust on you. Don't break it because the rest of the life she will be at guilt because she trusted a wrong man. She will never ever be able to trust on anyone. If you know that you won't be together in the future then just let her know. Don't give false hopes and keep her in dark.
In future, a man doesn't have to face any pressure or stress after he loses his virginity. But a girl has to go through all this. She has neither friends nor family - actually no one with whom she can share her sorrows. She is already shattered from inside and there's another pressure coming in her way i.e, Who will marry her and will the man ever accept her after knowing the reality? The harsh reality of today's world- Everyone wants to do sex but no one wants that girl as his wife who has already lost her virginity. Woahhh!!!! sounds great but it's true. It's really hard for a girl to survive in a man's world. She has no rights of her own. She just have to act as a man asks her to do.
If she has lost her virginity then she doesn't have to held her head down. She hasn't done anything wrong. Maybe she is just wrong at making choices. The girl who has lost her virginity at an early stage has full right to live and be happy in her own world. No one can put her down. She deserves respect. Take decision wisely so no one one can make fool of you or you have to regret it later on. Be aware. Always remember that- You are strong Girl….Go ahead and keep shining.