Individuals are happier being single or married… ?

Being an Indian person and to live in an Indian Culture this statement is very debatable…

Why this is so?

Why the men and women who dont want to get married at all are looked down upon by the society…They should be free to choose about how to would like to spend their lifestyle.

Are marriages gives the guarantee of happiness in life…then answer is a BIG NO………..

It is not necessary to BEING WITH SOMEONE or BEING WITH MARRIED TAG is the best state of your Existence.

There should be no compulsion for it. Any person whether it is WOMEN or MEN  should marry only when they feel happy and are confirmed about their relationships that can last longer and with peaceful state of mind forever.

In India, marriage is a done and absolute thing. After a certain age, everyone should have to get married,  produce kids, make family etc. There should be  no chances of conflict upon it. Any men and women have to be with a partner after a certain age, because everyone in the world is doing so. 

But in this myth, everyone have forgotten that….Marriage is all about choosing  the right  partner….to travel along with you….in your entire life journey. 

It is the not the DESTINATION but the JOURNEY of two like minded people who spend their opinions and lives with each other.

So marriage not be forced, instead is should be done when it is for upliftment of your SOUL and not your excitement and appreciation in front of other people.

Why do you need to be someone?  

This question need to be asked very wisely BY you TO yourself.

If the answers are..i.e.

To make the purposeful use of your life…To enhance your spiritual skill….To unveil your full potential….

Then marriage is a BLISS….

BUT

If it is reverse, after your marriage, if somebody starts affecting your day to day life unnecessarily OR in other words if somebody takes charge of your life and starts controlling/ dominating you in every aspects of your life……If marriage becomes only a compromise and adjustments …it become CURSE/ TOXIC for  life….Then that marriage is not at all carries any WORTH….

i.e…………..   FASTING is better then eating CONTAMINATED FOOD…

Similarly….. being SINGLE is better then being a TOXIC relationship………

So while making the decision, wthether someone wants to marry on remain single…one should consider all the aspects