so first of all it the question everyone asks ….. are relationships really worth it, well!! I don't know ,no one really knows but I will tell you on thing I am not the long relationship type nor am I the one of those who believe in long distance relationship but I am the one of those people who only like relationships when they are new. And I know I don't sound like a good person but what I can say new relationships are fun and that is when you get butterflies in your stomach , because after a while it can be like a habit and what's romantic in that ……

well may be I have not been in love till now , so that's why I think that way  but many people take attraction for love and I don't want to make that mistake and I read somewhere you love three times in your lifetime ….the first one is your first love ,you think of it all the time after breakup but it was more like a puppy love because you were very young when it happened and  you ended things for smallest of misunderstandings. And the second love is the kind of toxic relation in which there is no trust but fights all the time and that is one I call headache relationship worst of all kind. And my  readers the third kind is true love where connection is instant you feel like you have known this person all your life and that is the kind of love you should be looking for in a relationship.

 all I am talking about is just hearsay because finding love and being in a relationship are very different things there are a lot of factors involved. Because you may find love but to lock that is very hard . if I am talking about myself than I self sabotage my relationships if they are too good to be true ….I don't know why I do that but I take the easy way out rather than being in a long term relationship because they are hard to handle I tell you from my point of view.

I talked about being in relationship but what about after breakup…. what do you feel after breakup well personally I don't think it's a big deal if I do the breakup but if other person does it than I don't know it has not happened yet but I have friends who did mutual breakup , or their partner broke up with them ,so I guess it's not that bad…But most important of all is that stalking your ex never stops no matter how many months before you broke up and if got in a relation before you after breakup than it's another bad decision waiting for you after you sober up …….

well that's all I have to say about this topic I don't want to bore you guys!!!