A question that have changed so many lives, a question that gave so many people a way to get out of a situation, a question that can help you to feel good about about yourself.

There are people in the world out there who look out for approval from others.. “am I too fat”, "am I too skinny", “am I good enough”, “am I allowed to get married to the person i love”……. random questions asked from others seeking their approval but here is the truth you don't need that. Whenever you are in a confusion ask yourself that do you really need to ask other that what is good for you or what not, can anyone take better decision for your life. 

There are so many people out there who leave their dream job because they need approval of their family, there are girls our there who leave their dream life as they do not get approval of their family to get married to a person they love. there are people out there who compromise with there situation in their jobs as they need approval of their bosses, there are people out there who need approval to become what they want to become.

But have you ever thought that do you really need any approval if your doing something right to make your life better, do you really need to stay at home when you can go in some other city or other country and make more money and create a better life for yourself, do you really need approval from society what is pretty and what not…."you are dusky, you are not beautiful", "you are too fat, you are not beautiful". Who knows that fat person may have hormonal issues… can you change the color of your skin, answer is no…… so rather than feeling bad about yourself why don't you start asking yourself a question that, does it really matters until i am happy, does it really going to change my life.

Want to add few more things that not seeking for approval means you can do whatever you want to do, NO…. it does not mean that.

Before taking any decision ask yourself few question- 

-Is it going to make your life better?
-Is this what makes you happy?
Last but not the least
-Is it ethical?
Understands the different between right and wrong.

Your heart always gives you right suggestion… listen to it.