Hello friends
    Hope all are doing well and good. I am here with my another blog in which I want to share about parenting tips. 
 

      All parents are concerned about our children in providing education with or without extra skills and meet their survival needs. But can you just give a thought over it, that in today's day to day life how many parents out there are teaching their children to love each other and to care for each other and to be kind among every one. Are we raising them just physically or characteristically too.
    Children grow physically but intellectually they remain unmature where their religious beliefs too are at zero level. All their needs are met but they don't know how to love and care each other nor they are being loved and cared in today's busy life. They don't know what is the difference between good and bad due to which most of the time our children fell into the trap of ill manner and bad intellect. Due to which they waste their time in bad environment and get habituated to bad thoughts. Just think if our children are not taught about the good manners for days and months how will their intellect be good? 
   Dear parents your children don't need luxurious life nor heavy inheritance but they do need good intellect where we have to teach them the love for our Lord and our Lord is looking over us 24/7. We must keep watching over them that what are the good habits in them and we must strengthen them in to it. We should keep an eye over their bad habits and help them get rid of those.
   As parents we should not make excuses for not having enough time due to our job. Priorities matters. The companions (may Allah be pleased with them) of Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him used to won the battles of the world but when they return back to home they used to win the hearts of their children too. They used to develop their character and train their intellect based on religious beliefs. A father's chants and a mother's love are what a child needs. Don't excuse from this by saying that we are busy in earning only to meet their needs. From this kind of providence their physical looks may appear fit and healthy but their intellect will be weak and low.
   Children are innocent. The way we raise them is the way they mature. So let's not run from our responsibility of raising them with good intellect. Let's love them , play with them and tell them such stories by which they develop good character and intellect. In this busy life let's us avoid much usage of mobile phones for the sake of raising them properly.
After we die even if one of your children pray for you from the bottom of their heart as ''Rabbanag-firli-Wali-Walidaya-Walil-Mumineena-Yauma -Ya-Kaumul -Hisab" (14 :41). Meaning : "Our Lord! Forgive me and my parents, and (all) the believers on the Day when the reckoning will be established."
Thank you all....
-Redbird✒