Hello candlemonks,
     Hope all of you are doing well and safe. I am here with another blog. Hope it will be thought provoking. Without delay let us pop in to the blog.
   In the name of Allah the Beneficent the most Merciful.
     The difference between adultery and marriage is that adultery is just fulfilling the lustrous desires whereas in marriage the man is taking the responsibility of a woman after her father. For this, according to Islamic law he must pay the dower (the payment from the husband or his family to the wife) and subsequent to marriage the wife also acquires inheritance rights. Remember that where a life of intemperance is lived there people are scared of marriage life because by thinking that a woman is a toy they end up in fulfilling their lustrous desires.
I want to share two real stories that I read in a journal. Actually it is not worth sharing but I am sharing this here is because I want to let you know that how cheap some people are. I am not saying all are same but most of them in today's world are like this.
There was an engineer in France. He went for inspection in some factory that is a little far from his native. Some of the engineers in that factory teased him saying that you are here for a month,  so when you go back it is not known that whether your wife will remain yours or not. He replied them need not to worry because "women are like buses if you miss one take another one".
On reading this I was like Oh my Lord forgive us. The society in which people are well educated but are with such low thoughts. What is the position of women in such societies?
Similarly the journalist in the very same journal has written another story in which he happened to meet a well educated engineer in UK. The engineer asked the journalist how many children do you have? The journalist replied to his question and asked the same question to that engineer. The engineer replied "I am still a bachelor". The journalist told him "but your age seems to be more". So he replied, "yeah! I'm fifty two years old". So the journalist asked him, "You are a well educated engineer and you have got aged too but why didn't you marry yet?" The engineer replied "If you can find the milk in the market, there is no need to have a cow in your house".
Just give a thought over it, how shameless and indecent the society has become where people are well educated and well civilised but have such dirty minds. This is the reason why Islam strongly opposes immortality. Contrary to this, Islam teaches to lead a life of modesty.
The beloved wife of Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) Aisha may Allah be pleased with her had said, "I have seen that modesty in the eyes of Prophet Muhammad Peace be upon him which I have not even seen in the eyes of teenage girls of Madinah( Holy city of Saudi Arabia) too.
The Islamic law says "if you wish for a partner whom you want to last with for lifetime then you have to make a long time decision. We might get so many short-term partners but long-term partners are very less".

I will conclude here saying that let us teach our children both boys and girls to respect and value everyone and let us help them to get rid of such dirty thoughts.

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-Redbird✒