Why are they lying to us?
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There are many reasons why someone lies.

Some may be legitimate, some may be lies to cover up crimes.

Let us look at the second type of lie.

Why are they lying to us?
If an incident is told, the person involved may become angry, scold, or misunderstand, further complicating the problem.

May not absorb what is being said, mainly unwilling to forgive.

They lie in such situations.

What to do about it?
The person concerned should be understanding if the first mistake is to be boldly stated.

Forgive mistakes and be careful to explain mistakes so that they don't happen again.

Most importantly, listen to why things went wrong without getting angry.

There is no need to lie to someone like this.

Those who are shy to say wrong are a special category, but don't be the one who shows fear of breaking us down further.

Children
Adults know what they have done even if they lie. So, they will correct the mistake next time.

Later, when they find out, they will say something and manage. Due to the big complexity they will face the corresponding problem.

But even more dangerous are the lies children tell.

While lying about small problems at school is wrong, bigger mistakes are more important.

Children do not know how to get out of their mistakes.

Children make mistakes in school but don't tell their parents for fear of being scolded.

But later it will become a big problem and an incident that brings shame to everyone.

Then our boy/girl did the same! There is no use in regretting that.

Therefore, discipline is necessary but to the extent that children are told of their mistakes can have negative consequences.

If the parents do not bring the confidence to the children to dare to tell them, then there are chances of huge problems in the future.

Because such is the current situation.

With the increased opportunities for making mistakes, children will speak openly only if there is an easily accessible situation.

Can you explain easily?
It seems that there is only one person to confide in and share problems with. Are you wondering why?

Why do we choose a particular one when there are so many?!

If you can't say it to someone else, but you can say it to the same person, then something is drawing you to him.