How to Know it's the time to Break Up

These are some warning signs showing that it's time to breakup.

Have no desires to see each other. You and your partner tetx or call each other most of time, even at work, but now it seems annoying sometimes when your partner calls you. Hence, you don't respond to the calls.

You may even try to avoid each other, avoid meeting each other even when both of you are in the same house. You would also prefer to hang out with your own friends and spend time alone.

Making your Final decision

To be the one to request for a breakup can be stressful, especially when your partner is someone you loved so much before.

• Think about why you want a breakup. Think and consider all the reasons that are making you leave your partner. was it just because of temporary negative emotions? Was it because of conflicts involving legal issues ?  Do not make hasty decisions, and be reasonable on why you want a breakup.
• Make a list of all reasons for breakup and possible solutions. Lkist down all reasons you had considered for a breakup and possible solutions to solve problems, If you think there is still a chance to save the relationship. This will help you to have a cleared view for your decision-making.

Choose the Right Time

It will be hard for your partner to recover. If you put yourself in your partner's shoes, consider how you would feel when you experience the same hearbreak every year just because your partner breaks up with you on your birthday or valentine's Day.

It will bring back the bad memoriesand also this may contribute to you felling guilty and choosing not to leave.

Stick with your decision 

It can be hard to leave someone, whom you loved so dearly for so long. There are so many things to consider before making this decision to breakup with your partner. No matter the reasons that brngs you to this decision, you should consider avoiding a messy breakup. Here are some tips on sticking with your decision.

• Plan your breakup. As always, prepare and pal it properly
• Give good explanation. Express your feelings in a proper way and explain what makes you feel that way.
• Get support. this is great way to distract you from wanting to get back to your partner.
• Keep focus. You will feel the pain, grieve, sadness of breaking up and you should not hide the negative felling.