Figuring out your orientation can be complicated. 

In our society where most of the people expected to be straight, it can be difficult for them to take one step back and ask yourself whether your are gay or not? . You are the only person who can identify your orientation truly.

When do we come to know that we are not like other people we are different from them . When there is a sex dream or we get attracted or there is a intense feelings towards people of the same gender as us . 

Having a sex dream about someone of the same gender it doesn't necessarily make you gay. OR having a sex dream about someone of the opposite gender doesn't  necessarily make you straight.

There are different type of attraction , like romantically attracted towards a same gender person it means you want a stable relationship and there is physical attraction which means you are ready to have a sexual relationship or you want to be sexually active with that same gender person.

Sometimes we are romantically and sexually attracted to same group people or sometimes we are not.

for example , sometimes you are romantically attracted towards men but physically you are attracted towards women and man both . This situation is called as Mixed orientation or Cross orientation and it is totally okay. There is nothing to be ashamed of it .

Every single straight person is unique. Every single gay person is unique. Every person of other orientation is unique. and there is no certain criteria to qualify you as a gay , straight, bisexual or anything else.

There is no right given to other to talk about your orientation and make you feel like something else.You should have faith in yourself and express your feelings openly.

Even now there is a lot of criticism towards gay . If people come to know that he is gay they will treat him very rudely and differently. but don't be afraid of that just remember that your orientation is valid and your feelings is valid . So whatever society says to you just don't pay attention towards it do what your heart says to you . 

It is not a crime to be gay , lesbian, bisexual or something else . It is just a gift from a god of uniqueness for you to experience a new stage of life with new people .

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