India has a very rich culture and values but there are certain issues when it comes to society and how one should behave or decide things accordingly. Other than the real actual issues like poverty, lack of education and medical facilities everything is always politicised rather than actually solving it. Why are we always told about are actions and decisions and how it is going to affect going to affect other outsiders view but how it is going to affect us personally. For instance, i was allowed to go for further studies outside my town because nobody else in my family has gone ever and its not our tradition to send girls alone, We are not allowed to go for sales and progressive jobs rather than just settle for desk job or teaching, etc. We as individuals are so afraid of judgements that we could kill our own happiness and dreams and live with frustration but we will satisfy the ego of society and people and not face any questions. Is that really that bad to confront the people outside who are no one just a group who will pass comments and go on. When will all things change and be free of judgements and there be only understanding. We always pressurize our loved ones to perform better score good marks not because we want but may be because the neighbours or relatives are going to compare or mock us. We are so haunted just by the thought of our image that too parameters decided by others that actually we are always judged by ourselves only not others. We need to wear clothers are considered ethical, we need behave according to gender, there is a particular staircase made for us god knows by whom that we need to step up on and keep moving & in case we ever decide to break the ladder and make our own way oh! god its going to be like a fire, nobody could digest it how can we make it on our own. True society is always the one where everyone is supported , loved and respected irrespective of caste , creed , status , gender and other stereotypes. When we will start believing in each other rather than being jealous then it will be a really happy place and a progressive society . Lets hope we all always be really happy and free of our own devils first.